It is quite tragic that Gaybigans have met it's doom quite so fast. But what more tragic is that it was the cause of it's doom. I prefer to shut my mouth. Maybe this quote will help explain everything.
“The essence of true friendship is to make allowances for another's little lapses." David Storey.
Each have chosen their path. Some bonded together. Some have dared to be alone. But whatever happened I'm happy that I met them, spent a part of my life with them, and I can say that I have them as friends on one point of my life.